10/24/20 Week 7: Differences in Manners

Difference in Manners

Tossing and catching Markers

This manner can happen between friends and family. If you are in some public or with strangers, it can be rude taking, as a lack of respect. The situation and the place have importance to evaluate if we can make it. If we are in the kitchen will be inappropriate is to toss plates, knives, or folks. I prefer, don't make that between friends because this can see abuse of confidence. The factor of society has much influence. Trying with adults, you don't make it because it is offensive.

Belching

In my country, it is considered vulgar. It harms society. People, knowing it to make it between friends and family. In a formal situation, it is impolite. It is difficult to avoid when you drink a soda. Someone is a challenge to auto-control with belching because they can suffer some difficult. 

Now, remember, in some cultures, if they're arguing with you, even if they call you stupid, they might not intend to offend

The possible challenge in a TESOL class will be the misunderstandings. They would be given in the relationship with the teacher and with the students. We, as futures teachers, need to have careful in our dealings with the students, our sentences, and the way in how to receive us and to interpret their behaviors will be necessary to achieve success.

The parents would avoid misunderstanding when their children to deal with students of different manners with the next example. If I were a father, will make will use the social network to share the existence of the diverse behavior of being that there is in my family, starting with the place of our precedence. I will invite other parents to share their different manners of them with their children.

I learned that we don't know everything. We need still in our lessons with a mind willing to learn questioning if really our way to assimilate behaviors is the correct.

I think that my culture was enriched by knowing about differences in manners. In my experience as a student, the teachers sometimes only impose their model without allowing the understanding of the manners of the students.

Don't use the first name

When I was in high school, my classmates call me by my last name. It was so common that when we want to know the name of a classmate, we didn't know it. I did realize that when you don't use the first name, preferring in its place, the second name, you can feel deep respect. Teachers also called me by my second name.